One More Question
Neighboring is not a way to grow your church, it is a dare to faithfulness. – Tim Sorens, Parish Collective
September 28 is National Good Neighbor Day!
- The Hopeful Neighborhood Project has provided a few ideas that you can use to be a good neighbor. Among them are ways to beautify your neighborhood, provide your neighbors with resources, and get involved with community activities.
- Try a mini-experiment! This can be handing out water to people on walks in your area, inviting neighbors to chalk the church parking lot, or offering to pray for someone.
- Remember: We are “free to fail!” knowing that we can try again and again, always learning how to NEIGHBOR better. However you decide to be a good neighbor, please share pictures and tag the Conference on Facebook.
One More Question is an initiative to support local churches in being better neighbors and partners in their communities. The goal is to teach, train, and resource congregations who want to design outreach ministries WITH their community. There is specific support for smaller churches (those who worship fewer than 200) so that all ARUMC congregations can step out in faith to ask One More Question.
Much of the training offered through One More Question will focus on asking churches questions about themselves, their neighborhood, neighbors, and their communities. As churches take action, relationships with their neighbors and community will strengthen, ultimately creating ministries and programs that make room for OTHERS to join with the congregation, and vice versa, in order to build stronger communities.
HOW TO JOIN US IN ONE MORE QUESTION
Where to Start: Stronger Community Outreach Ministries
1. Start Conversations Within
- Ask “Who are we now?”
- Commit to being a Stronger Community Partner
- Identify Gifts, Passions & Strengths of Members & the Church
2. Get to Know Your Neighbors
- Participate in the Good Neighbor Experiment
- Create opportunities to ask the community “Who are we to you?”
- Identify Gifts, Passions & Strengths of your Neighbors
3. Bring Everyone to the Table
- Create community discussions around neighborhood needs
- Do Asset Mapping – identify assets in your neighborhood and community
- Connect around common gifts, core values, passions, and strengths
4. Let the Spirit (and Partners) Be Your Guide
- Discern the answer to “What are we called to next?”
- Ask the the community where it needs you to partner
- Start small yet focused on your common mission
5. Practice Radical Hospitality
- Believe that every neighbor you meet has gifts to give, strengths to share.
- Commit to the relationships you have formed; it’s a journey.
- Identify and break down barriers to being a strong community together.
- Participate in a Regional Training Event: 3-hour introduction to “neighboring” in a highly interactive environment. There is a $10/person registration fee.
- Offer a Sermon Series or an all-church/small group experience using the Good Neighbor Experiment Curriculum (Purchase curriculum here).
- Take part in all the training opportunities offered by ARUMC: a 3-hour regional event; a 1-day statewide training; an in-depth and in-person cohort experience that meets 3 times in 4 months; and a 4-week Zoom introductory cohort. Teams learn the theology of neighboring, how to conduct learning conversations, and begin to map assets in the local community. Links to the different trainings this fall are below.
- Smaller Churches may apply for a One More Question microgrant to support outreach opportunities developed through neighboring work or community asset mapping experiences.
*Smaller church = average Sunday worship is fewer than 200
Book List
Having Nothing and Possessing Everything: finding abundant communities in unexpected places by Michael Mather
Real Connections: Ministries to Strengthen Church and Community Relationships by Joy Skegstad and Heidi Unruh
Toxic Charity: How Churches and Charities Hurt Those They Help (and How to Reverse It) by Robert D. Lupton
Walking with the Poor: Principles and Practices of Transformational Development by Bryant L. Myers
When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty without Hurting the Poor…and Yourself by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert
When Helping Hurts: The Small Group Experience (An Online Video-Based Study on Alleviating Poverty by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert
Becoming Whole: Why the Opposite of Poverty Isn’t the American Dream by Brian Fikkert and Kelly M. Kapic
Generous Justice: How God’s Grace Make Us Just by Timothy Keller
Gone For Good? Negotiating the Coming Wave of Church Property Transition Editor, Mark Elsdon
What Every Church Member should know about Poverty by Bill Ehlig and Ruby K. Payne, Ph.D.
A Framework for Understanding Poverty: A Cognitive Approach (6th Edition) by Ruby K. Payne, Ph.D.
From Understanding Poverty to Developing Human Capacity by Ruby K. Payne, Ph.D.
Art of Gathering: How we Meet and Why it Matters by Priya Parker
Resources
The ReCycle: A Process for Community Discernment
Asset Mapping Resources
Asset-Based Strategies for Faith Communities
Individual & Church Asset Mapping Guide
1 hour exercise in Asset Mapping for Congregations
7 Creative Models for Community Connection
More Resources
5 Principles for Pastoring a Vibrant Older Congregation
One More Question wants to celebrate what our local churches are doing! These churches have asked one more question of their neighbors, their community, and those they serve through their outreach. We hope you are inspired!
Angie Gage, Harrison Cooperative Parish, Harrison First
Cooperative Parish Video, Clinton First UMC & Leslie UMC
Deborah Bell Theresea Hoover UMC
“Having Nothing, Possessing Everything” book club discussion with Rev. Mike Mather
Post-OMQ Training Resources
- Instructions for Creating a Community Asset Map with Google Maps
- Link to Purchase or Download for free The ReCycle: A Community Discernment Process
- 10-Minute Recycle Doc
- “We Can…” Game Instructions and Printable Cards
- Link to Purchasing Social Capital Jenga and Jenga Game and Sharpies needed to color the ends of the blocks.
- Beginning Asset Mapping: Learning Conversations Instructions, Capacity Cards, and Learning Conversations Recording Sheet within your Church and with your Neighbors!
- Sample Surveys to ask about gifts, skills, interests, and passions for church members and neighbors in outreach ministries & other Asset Mapping tools – pages 101-104 of Asset Based Strategies for Faith-Based Communities
- Different Type of Asset Maps
Upcoming Events
Neighboring Jump Start
IMPORTANT UPDATE
The Lights of Arkansas: Living as if the Gospel is True
Neighboring Jump Start Zoom: Sundays, November 2, 9, 16, and 23, 2:00-3:30. Free but registration required. Discover in this 4-week Zoom cohort experience an introduction to the theology behind “neighboring” and ways to connect with neighbors around you as you grow your neighboring team. You will take a small step in connecting with a neighbor each week and then share stories to celebrate as you learn and grow. Rev. Sarah Ellzey, a trained facilitator for The Good Neighbor Experiment and a pastor at Paragould UMC, will be your host! Register here.

One More Question is generously supported by The Methodist Foundation for Arkansas.