You are created by God to be in relationship with God, and will have an empty space in your heart until that happens. So you think of all the things you can do to bring it about only to discover that none of them work. But it doesn’t matter, because God is already reaching out to you in the most personal way possible in Jesus. So remember, it’s not what you need to do to be in a relationship with God – it’s what God has done to be in a relationship with you.