What do you do when the most wonderful time of the year becomes the most un-wonderful time of the year because you’re overwhelmed by grief, fighting depression, watching your marriage unravel or seeing people you love destroy their lives? The worst thing you can possibly do is pretend everything is fine. The best thing you can ever do is hold on to for dear life to the only thing that truly matters about Christmas: God loves you so passionately God has gotten as personally involved as possible in real life – including yours.