You mess up, are hurt for the hundredth time and experience a horrible tragedy. So how will you grow? Thinking about this question may seem crazy when you’re just trying to get through the day. But it’s possible because God uses everything for your good. Of course, God doesn’t engineer your mess-ups, pain or tragedy so you can learn needed lessons. God doesn’t act like this. It’s just that God is so purposeful about your life that God is able to use even the worst things as opportunities for you to grow in love.