You feel unworthy, experience deep guilt, worry about your kid’s relationship with God or struggle over a fractured relationship. This is heart pain – and it’s probably the deepest pain possible. So you pray. But nothing changes. Then you pray more. Still nothing. Until you conclude that God has abandoned you. But what if God’s already helping you, and you’re missing it because you’re more focussed on what you think God should do than receiving what God’s already doing? When you start with God, you’ll be amazed how much of your heart pain God already is healing.