Ask questions. Give it your all. Seek to grow. Understand the other’s perspective. Try to make a bad situation better. Forgive someone when you don’t want to. Make the tough decision. Never give up. And every time you do, make sure you pray, pray some more and then pray even more. Not to get God to do what you want, tell God how to run the world or prove how righteous you are. But simply because it’s the best way to be in relationship with God who wants to be in relationship with you every moment forever.