Just because you talk about God doesn’t mean you actually start with God. Indeed, your talk about God can disguise that it’s really a lot more about you than God. That’s why you need to really start with God. Accept God’s acceptance of you in Christ. Trust that God wants you to flourish. Experience God’s joy. Let God transform you. And hold onto God’s promises. Sure, you’ll never do it perfectly. But you’ll be amazed how it becomes the most natural thing in the world to put God at the center of everything you do.