The beautiful music. The bright lights. The family gatherings. No wonder Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year. But what do you do when Christmas becomes the most un-wonderful time of the year because you’re overwhelmed by grief, fighting depression or seeing people you love destroy their lives? That’s when you hold on for dear life to the one thing that truly matters about Christmas: God loves you so passionately God has gotten personally involved in real life in order that you may experience real life.