As soon as you try to meet someone else’s expectations, you feel discombobulated because it’s just not you. Whenever you go out of your way to be as in-your-face as possible to prove you are in control of your life, you feel out of sorts because you’re still not really being you. That’s why the best thing you can do to be the best person you can be is simply to embrace your unique personality, gifts and experiences – all to the glory of God.