It probably seems you spend much of your life as a re-actor to what happens to you. Of course, doing this is part of real life. But God has created you to be a pro-actor every single day, regardless of what’s going on in your life. And you can. So call someone who’s going through a difficult time, pray, ponder the wonder of God’s creation, help someone expecting nothing in return or any of a million other things you can do right now that will help you live out who God has created you to be.