You may not realize it, but you’re caught in a lifelong tug of war. Pulling you in one direction is your desire to be in control. Pulling you in the other direction is your desire to let God be in control. So how do you stop all the back-and-forth tugging? Let the fullness of God’s love embrace you. Trust God with everything you’ve got. But most of all, discover how doing God’s will helps you become the best you that you can possibly be. And that beats being in control every single time.